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Intro
In this post, I will be talking about the rise of feminine men specifically in the black community. I have been noticing that an abundant amount of men think that they should not have to provide or build wealth for their future wives or family. In some situations, some men think that they are the prize and should be chased instead of working for the women. I will be talking about this twisted psychology in this blogpost and addressing the reasons why they are starting to act this way.
The Role Reversal
In today’s society, I am starting to see a lot of beta males building platforms and spreading delusional rhetoric. The Men are expressing that they will not provide for a woman just based on her looks or because she does not have enough financial stability to buy her own gifts/luxurious/or services. The men want to be chased in the beginning stage of the relationship and want to take on the role of the feminine. Men are coming in with the mindset of the women because they do not want to feel the pressure of providing for the feminine. They want to provide little to no support and stand on the back of the women. They use the phrases “If you can not afford a luxury item then, why would I buy it for you?” or “If she is a 3 she should not be acting like a 9.” to use as a smokescreen. When they say this they really mean when I get into a relationship with you, I will not take on the role of the masculine and provide for you the way a masculine man should provide for the feminine. I want to be treated as…
